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Date: 2005-06-28 03:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mysteryfem.livejournal.com
Hello. I came across you through browsing, i think i have seen you around before. Id like to add you for a few reasons but il explain a bit to see what you think.

Ive read your bio and entries i can see. There are a few reasons why id love to add you and a couple which made me unsure so il be honest and see how it goes :-).

I think i may like your creativety, your honesty, you look nice thats a bonus heh. You seem by a little i have read to have strong character etc.

The only thing which made me hover a little was because i read cancer in your interests and see by reading your dad died of it? and youve had surgery. I read you were worried about cancer but said youve coped and over it maybe. So il be honest..i have a bad irrational fear of cancer..to the point i dont work because of it partly. Though ive been unwell with lots of other things. But if i read symptoms of cancer to much or if friends arent careful with me in comments when i think i have cancer i get realy unwell again.
I guess when i go through an episode of thinking what i have wrong with me is potential cancer, friends help by just trying to tell me many other things something could be and it doesnt have to be that!
Heh, im not just saying this because its been in your life but i dont know your personality realy and not sure if your the type of person that would be blunt and to the point about it and feel listing the symptoms would be a good approach when knowing to much info on it i will faint lol.

Usualy when friends of mine talk about cancer in their posts, i just skim past as i cant handle it. But im a very loyal reader and commenter otherwise. I hope this doesnt sound to rude or bizarre to be so honest. I guess this maybe the weirdest introduction youve had LOL.

My posts are quite down sometimes as unwell and a big worrier with health. But i also try to balance it with the more normal everyday entries and get creative once in a while. Im not sure if you mind entries that contain artful nude photos of a friend in your list so thats maybe a reason why you may not want to add me. I guess you can read my bio and see what you think.

Ive read yours, and you seem realy interesting and would like to give it a try..but of course il leave it with you to see if youd like to or not. I did think stuff it il just ask to add without all this heavy stuff lol but my fear is so bad and seeing cancer in your interests and life i guess i needed you to know that should you decide to add me back you already know i have an irrational fear of it so can then know why i may not comment if an entry is about it is all. You must be interesting enough on first impression for me to say all this and make a plonker of myself! lol Oh well im all for honesty so ive layed myself on the line heh.

Date: 2005-06-28 09:32 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] misspotsitt.livejournal.com
Don't worry about it.

To be honest, I don't think a fear of cancer is irrational, because it is a scary thing. But you can spend too much of your life worrying about things, and that can stop you living, if that makes sense.

My father died of cancer (as have a lot of my family) and I have had cancer but survived it. It comes up occassionally, but normally in a more philosophical way. I don't talk about being ill or symptoms and they are always easily skipped. I'm sure that there are some people who skip them for totally different reasons.

We all have our little quirks though so don't worry about it :)


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